Libertinism, a philosophy but also practices…
If you haven’t already read some of our other articles (read more: Le libertinage ou l’Art de la Liberté Sexuelle), we urge you to do so to discover our world. For us, it goes without saying thatbeing a libertine is first and foremost a concept, a state of mind, a philosophy we might even say. However, there’s no denying that libertarianism implies the discovery of a number of sexual and erotic practices, and these can vary considerably from one person to another. The practices defined as sexual (or not) in libertarianism depend on individual preferences, limits and rules established by each person. To support you in your self-exploration, here’s a short list of the most common practices for your greatest quest for pleasure:
#L’échangisme
Swinging involves consenting couples (established or free) temporarily exchanging partners for sex. This can take place in the context of a libertine club, a private party or online dating. Swinging is based on the mutual consent of all participants.
#Mixing
Mixing is a practice similar to swinging, but without sexual penetration. Couples can engage in sexual activities with other couples, except penetration. This may include foreplay, caresses and erotic games.
#Triolism
Triolism, colloquially known as the 3-way, involves inviting a third person in a couple to join in their sexual relations. This can be done on an occasional or regular basis. The consent of all participants is essential.
#The coast-to-coast
Side-by-side, sometimes called “soft swinging”, is a sexual practice in which couples come together to have sex with their own partners, but in the same physical space, usually in the same room. Unlike traditional swinging, where couples exchange partners to have sex with others, side-by-side focuses on closeness and shared sensuality rather than the exchange of partners.
#Voyeurism and exhibitionism
Voyeurism involves experiencing pleasure from watching others having sex, whileexhibitionism involves enjoying being observed having sex. These practices can be carried out in private or in a libertine club setting.
#Candaulism
Candaulism is a term that describes a sexual practice in which a person experiences arousal and pleasure from watching their partner have sex with another person. In candaulism, the person watching is called a “candaulist”, while their partner is the “candaulé”.
#Cuckolding
Cuckolding is a sexual and fetishistic practice in which one man (the “cuckold”) finds pleasure in watching his partner (the “cuckoldress”) have sex with another man, often called the “bull” or lover. Cuckolding is based on a dynamic of consensual domination, submission and voyeurism between the partners involved.
#The B.D.S.M
Bondage, Discipline, Domination, Submission, Sadism, Masochism; some libertines are interested in BDSM practices, which involve power plays, domination and submission, as well as the use of various props and restraints. BDSM is based on consent and clear communication of limits. Note that you don’t have to be a libertine to practice these acts. (Further reading: We tell you about BDSM in Plaisirs sans tabous).
Note that each of these practices is based on mutual consent, clear communication of limits and respect for the desires and needs of all partners involved. Explore these practices with respect and openness, and be sure to discuss your limits and expectations with your partners before experimenting.
Great experiences!
