“I will be a spider, The ropes will be my webs, You will be tied, The body laid…Like a star…”
Shibari and bondage are two practices that involve tying or binding a partner for aesthetic, sensual or erotic purposes. Although they share certain similarities, there are subtle differences between the two terms, mainly concerning their cultural origins and approach.
You may not be familiar with Shibari, and we’ll tell you all about it very briefly in this article, because we’re not the kings of rope, and to each his own attachments.
#The Shibari
Also called Kinbaku, is a traditional Japanese art of tying and binding partners with ropes in an aesthetic and erotic way; a form of “Japanese bondage”. It has evolved over the centuries into a modern practice that blends art, aesthetics, communication and sensual pleasure.
Shibari performers use specific knots and patterns to create bonds on their partner’s body. These patterns can be simple or extremely complex, and they can vary according to the preferences and skills of the performer.
The ropes used in Shibari are generally made of jute or hemp, although other materials such as cotton or silk can also be used. Ropes must be of high quality to avoid injury and ensure a comfortable experience.
Safety is a priority in Shibari. It’s essential to know the proper tying techniques to avoid cutting off blood circulation or causing injury. Shibari performers generally undergo training to ensure that they practice in complete safety.
We also advise you to find out more, get informed and learn how to practice by attending workshops, courses and initiations. There are a number of such places as the Ecole des Cordes in Paris, the Atelier Simonet, the Lyon Shibari association, etc… Be curious! !
#Bondage
Bondage is a more general term used throughout the world to describe the act of tying up or binding a partner with various accessories. It is not essentially linked to any specific culture or tradition, although the term can be used in a BDSM context (bondage, domination, submission, sadomasochism).
Bondage can be more varied in its approach, ranging from purely aesthetic to simpler forms of movement restriction. Bondage can involve the use of a wide variety of accessories, such as handcuffs, straps, blindfolds, etc., unlike Shibari (ropes only).
It’s a more flexible practice and can be learned informally, according to the individual preferences and needs of the partners.
As you can see, these two practices involve tying up your partner for sensual or even sexual purposes. However, shibari takes a more artistic and erotic approach, and is not necessarily linked to a sexual practice.
#Both shibari and bondage involve a psychological and emotional dimension. The experience and exploration of its constraints and pleasures is unique to each individual.
It is strongly recommended to research and learn the appropriate techniques, communicate openly with partners and respect each other’s limits and desires to ensure a positive and safe experience.
