“…Whereas a free couple is one that values individual freedom and non-exclusivity…”
Surely we’re not the only ones to have made this amalgam the very first time we broached the word “libertinage” in our relationship? And if not, this article might just be instructive, because these two concepts are often used interchangeably.
We define ourselves as a libertine couple, but not a free couple. We choose to live and open up to new sexual experiences (or not), outside the “conventional norms” of a couple, together.
#Libertine couple
A libertine couple is a couple that chooses toexplore and practice libertarianism, which usually involvesexploring their sexuality, with other people outside the main relationship. Libertine couples are often interested in consensual sexual practices with other people, such as swinging, melangism, triolism, dating other couples, etc. Libertine practices are usually carried out jointly, where both partners agree and actively participate in libertine experiences.
#Free Couple
Whereas a free couple is one that values individual freedom and non-exclusivity in their relationship, without necessarily engaging in specific libertine practices. Free couples can have open relationships, meaning that they allow their partners to have other sexual or romantic relationships outside the main relationship. However, this does not necessarily mean that extramarital relationships are a regular component of the relationship. An open couple may also involve a high level of trust, communication and openness to personal exploration, without necessarily participating in consensual sexual activities with other partners.
The main distinction lies in the fact that the term “libertine couple” is often associated with consensual sexual activities with other people, whereas the term “free couple” can be more general and imply greater individual freedom within the relationship, without necessarily being limited to specific sexual activities.
It’s important to note that the terms “libertine couple” and “free couple” can be defined differently by different people, and that there is no universal definition. Each couple’s relationship is unique, and these terms can be used to describe a variety of relationship dynamics. The key is open communication and mutual understanding between partners to clearly define what their relationship means.
